It is a stage
Then there comes the stage when we need to construct very close, intimate relations with one person.
It is a stage where our rise uphill when we receive more, than we give, gradually comes to an end.
at jg we come nearer to top, and are ready to begin a new big stage in the lives now a service stage when we start giving.
Close relations, a matrimony are here the main examination when the person learns to give as if it already has everything.
There is such formula: Give as if you already have everything.